14-10-2008 17:59

Thank you

Gday Tigersgirl, 
 
I have been a member of this site for awhile now & have been reading what people are experiencing & learning on their journeys of life, love & being in a poly relationship/family or looking to be in a poly family.  
 
I have kept to myself as I'm as nervous as hell on these computer thingies, hehehe. I havent really written in the forums & havent contacted anyone, thankfully someone contacted me & we have started messaging each other, which has started to bring me out of my cocoon a bit. 
 
The BIG Thank You is for the honesty in which you wrote about your poly family & your experiences & lessons reguarding the year leading up to your anniversary in this blog.  
 
I have never been in a poly family & so, as much as I have been learning about poly family dynamics & what that means to me & mine, it is all theory & no experience.  
 
It was with gratitude that as I was reading your blog & realised some of the emotional upheavals that you went through & are probably still going through (as I have learned in the last 4 yrs that our emotional & mental journeys are life long & always changing), that I have/had the same rose coloured glasses on that you did & I havent even stepped up & joined in a relationship, poly or otherwise. Though it is something I would dearly love to do. If I could stop being a chicken & actually do something about it. Lol 
 
I hope when I do get the chance to have my poly family that I am as open & honest in my understanding of mine, my childs & my partners emotional & mental needs as you were. 
 
Thank you again & be proud of what you have accomplished on your journey son far.  
 
Take care of yourself & your family 
Dannhii 
 
P.S. If there are any spelling mistakes in this comment, pretend there arent, which might not help you but it would help me tremendously, hehehe.

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